Wednesday, November 16, 2011
Sunday, February 27, 2011
(Covering 30 January through 13 Feb 2010)
Good Morning my Darling Daughters,
I didn't write to you last week because I was right there with you. It was wonderful to have the opportunity to spend time with both of you and to feel of your love. But now it is time to recap so that my journal is complete.
Two weeks ago Sunday (30 Jan), we had the opportunity to see Gladys Knight and the Unified Saints singers. It was spectacular. The boys had four tickets for Sunday afternoon, but they couldn't find anyone to go with them, so we gave those to Tiffany Womble so that she could go with her boys. We had five tickets that I thought were for Sunday evening, but when I looked at them again, they were for Saturday. We decided to try going standby, and I am glad we did. (John decided to stay home and relax.) It was raining lightly during our wait, but not to annoyance. We were among the very last to enter, but we still got four seats together, and the performers walked right past us and the beginning and the end of the concert.
Gladys Knight is a wonderful sister. Her testimony was very touching. I am hoping that the missionaries receive many referrals through this event. The program was so lovely. It was wonderful. But we will have to hear her sing "A Mid-night Train to Georgia" on a different kind of occasion. One brother, maybe a member of Rancho Cucamonga's stake presidency, gave a first discussion from the pulpit. It truly was a wonderful evening.
That Monday (31 Jan) was so long ago, but I'm certain that Christine and I did school and that she volunteered at the library. Thinking back, I am pretty sure that is also the day that I went to visit Gail Purcell while Christine was at the library. It was a pleasant surprise for her. She is such a dear friend. I believe that I lifted her spirits, and I know she did mine. Then we picked up Christine and the three of us went out to lunch.
Tuesday (1 Feb) is the day that Eliza called me to let me know that she was going to have surgery on Friday. They set that up fast! She saw the primary care doctor the Friday before, the surgeon on Tuesday, and had the surgery on Friday. One week. I'm glad since she has been dealing with the annoyance of these infections for over half a year.
I really felt like I should be there for Eliza's surgery. But there were other bonuses to going to Utah during this time: Ashlynn was baptized on Saturday; Kathy is failing because of the spread of her cancer; and my mom is struggling with her health as well. Anyhow, I texted Sheila on Wednesday morning (2 Feb) to ask if we could stay at her house. She and Mark were on a cruise at the time. I let her know that Eliza was having surgery and that it wasn't common knowledge. I also let her know that we'd be going to Ashlynn's baptism, and that no one else knew that we'd be there. We wanted to surprise everyone. Sheila, of course, texted back that we could stay there. Initially, we planned to drive home on Monday morning, but it wasn't until Friday that we did.
While Christine was volunteering at the library on Wednesday, I went to the temple. Of course, I put Eliza's and Cathy's names on the prayer roll. I put others, too, but I can't remember whom currently. It was nice to have the opportunity to serve there and to hear the prayer of the prayer circle. The past few times the prayer was that those who were ill would be healed; this time the wording was if it were according to the Lord's will.
Earlier I'd told Gail that the prayer circle prayers were quite strong in saying that those who were ill would be healed. In relationship to Aunt Kathy, I said to Gail, "I don't know if that is supposed to make me feel hopeful or what." She said, "It is to let you know that she won't be taken a day before her time." I really like that. There is so much wisdom in that statement, and I believe it.
Anyhow, I am glad that I could go to the temple and have Eliza's name on the prayer roll before she had surgery. After picking Christine up at the library, we headed to the park on Greenspot Road (which would be a beautiful place to take engagement pictures), but we went there to pick oranges. We picked a whole lot this time.
Wednesday afternoon, I went to Barbara Staffo's house to teach the second discussion to her grandson Lawrence, along with the missionaries. The missionaries were supposed to come to our house to eat on Sunday, but I took the fixing for spaghetti to them to put together the dinner, since I would be gone Sunday. I also took a bag of oranges to them and to Sister Staffo.
The discussion went really well. Both Elders were brand new to this area, so they hadn't met Lawrence yet. Elder Brown was teaching him as he would any 14-year-old boy. When he realized that Lawrence had some special needs, he adjusted his teaching style appropriately and taught very well. Since Lawrence does Karate, both Elders used examples from Karate to help explain principles they were teaching. It was really good.
Thursday (3 Feb) Christine and I drove to Utah. Christine was coming done with a cold, plus the change in climate probably didn't help. But we had a good safe drive. We stopped in Provo to see Eliza. Alex and Eliza went to dinner with us at Panda Express, which was fitting since it was the Chinese New Year. I found out that Eliza was scheduled to be at the surgery center at 6:30 a.m. and that Alex would drive her there. I planned to be there as well. Alex and a roommate gave Eliza a blessing that night.
Christine and I got to Sheila's house pretty late. Since the vents in the basement were currently closed, and since Christine wanted to watch a movie, we both just slept upstairs in the TV room, Christine on the couch and me on the floor. I usually don't sleep well on the floor. (Not much of an exception, but I did okay.)
Friday (4 Feb), I got up early to go be with Eliza during surgery. I left Christine at Sheila's to sleep longer and to do some schoolwork when she woke up. I met Alex and Eliza at the surgery center. Once I was there, Alex left Eliza with me. I don't know if he felt awkward staying because I was there or because he didn't like the thought of Eliza in surgery. The time went by quickly, and the surgery went well. Eliza was quite sweet when she woke up. She asked the same questions a few times because she really wasn't all the way awake yet. I got to wait with her in post op while she returned to herself. They wanted to make sure that she could eat, walk, use the bathroom, and such before we left. The doctor explained a little to me what he did, but he wasn't back again to talk to Eliza when she was fully awake. So some of the questions had to wait for the Monday appointment.
After going back to Eliza's apartment to get her things and to pay rent (and for Eliza to say good-bye to Alex for a bit), we went back to Sheila's house. After we were settled in there, I left Eliza with Christine, and I went to pick up Cathy.
(Feb. 14, 2011 Happy Valentine's Day! I love you both very much.)
So that Friday night after Eliza's surgery, Eliza and I slept in the big bed downstairs, Christine slept on the couch upstairs again, and Cathy slept on top of Mark's and Sheila's bed. Eliza doesn't like to share a bed, so we changed the arrangement again the following night. But she did well for her first night after surgery.
Saturday (5 Feb) was indeed a special day. Ashlynn got baptized that day. Alex drove to Sheila's house so that he could also go with us. Alex and Eliza drove separately so that they could leave earlier from the luncheon afterwards. The surprise, shock, and happiness of my family when they saw that I was there was amazing. I really do wish that I had pictures of it all. Suzanne just had a look of confusion and question. Chris asked Suzanne why she didn't tell him I was coming. My parents were happy to see me. My sister Kathy started crying, then she told Cathy Sarah that she'd lied when she said a friend drove her there. My brother Jon asked, "What are you doing here?" Hahaha. It was so much fun. It was the best surprise. I was also glad that I hadn't told anyone in advance that Eliza had surgery because my mom had been in insta-care that Friday as well. She had a bad episode of seliac (sp.) and they needed to have her on an i.v. to rehydrate her.
Suzanne and Chris had a wonderful luncheon at their house. It was good to visit with everyone. Alex and Eliza left much earlier than we did. I was happy that Suzanne sent us home with some sandwich foods and vegetables so that I didn't have to buy dinner. When Christine, Cathy, and I left, we went by Distribution In Union Fort to get a Book of Mormon Stories book and a triple combination in large print. Also, there was a Smith's Food and Drug right there, and Bob called in a prescription for Christine. Her cold had gotten so much worse. That Z-pack really helped.
Alex and Eliza were watching a movie when we got to Sheila's. We all played Phase 10 that night. I WON! Not to rub it in or anything. Alex slept on the upstairs couch. Eliza slept in Mark's and Sheila's room. Cathy, Christine, and I slept in the downstairs bedroom. It worked.
Sunday (6 Feb) was a good day. Church started at 11 a.m. But Christine needed more sleep than that, and Eliza needed rest and didn't feel like sitting for that long. So Cathy and I went to Sacrament meeting in my parents' ward and then we went by the graves. Alex, Eliza, and Christine went to my parents house around 2 p.m. I got to sit next to Cathy and Brendan at church. He is a sweetheart. It was fun to visit with him during the meeting. When a sister was crying during her testimony, I asked, "Is she happy or sad?" He said, "Tears of joy." Then I asked, "Does your mom cry when she is happy?" He shook his head "No." Funny. We didn't stay at the graves long because it was so cold, but I am glad that we went.
Jon had bought two pizzas for lunch and Mom ordered two more. It was fun to have everyone there to visit. (Sue's and Jon's families.) Jon and Vanessa plan to get married in
April.; They would like to be sealed to each other. I am so happy for Jon.
Everyone was excited for the Super Bowl. I don't usually watch, and I really didn't this Sunday either, but it was fun to be with everyone. During half-time we headed back to Sheila's. I needed to drop Cathy off at her apartment as well, so she could go to work in the morning. Alex headed back to Provo after the game as well.
Sheila and Mark arrived home late on Sunday evening. We were already all fast asleep: Eliza in the bed of the downstairs bedroom and Christine on the floor; I slept on the couch downstairs. Monday was Sheila's birthday!
Eliza was planning on going to school after her check up with the doctor on Monday(7 Feb). But she felt a little headachy and then she threw up. The student doctor or nurse practitioner told her that it was a reaction to the pain medicine and that she could start taking Ibuprofen, too. But she did take one more day off to just rest.
When we got back to Sheila's, Jake and Adalynn were there. She really is a darling baby. Jake had watched Sheila's windows for her. (Just in time for the next snowstorm.) Kathy had gone with Mom (Grandma) to the mortuary that morning as well to pick out a casket and a funeral/burial plan. Then she called me about meeting for lunch. Jake wanted to take his mom to lunch as well.
Eliza stayed home, but Christine and I went to lunch at Chuckarama with Sheila, Jake, Adalynn, Grandpa, Grandma, Kathy, Suzanne, Crysta, Jake, and Hailey. It was fun to have another chance to visit with family during the busy week, and we had the workers there sing "Happy Birthday" to Sheila. It was fun. I took two pieces of baked chicken--one for Cathy's dinner and one for Eliza's (even though there were signs out that said this was theft. Then I felt guilty. I need to learn to be more honest. I could have bought a plate to go. I think they enjoyed them anyhow. ;-))
After lunch, Suzanne drove Kathy back to her place and Christine and I followed. We visited there for awhile. Kathy shared her testimony and a lovely song from a CD that her daughter-in-law had given her.She is really a wonderful example to all of us. I'm glad that the Spirit has helped her through this so greatly.
Christine and I then went to visit Cathy and helped her sort some things. I mopped her floors and got rid of unnecessary boxes in her closet. (The latter I may have done Monday. ?) We had fun being with her and visiting. Then Eliza asked when we were coming back. She had had a good nap and woke up hungry. So we went home with her chicken and a potato to bake.
Tuesday (8 Feb), Eliza had an appointment with the nurse and then went to classes. While she was in class, Christine and I drove towards Utah Lake because the scenery to the west looked so beautiful. But I couldn't find a road that actually went through. So much building since I lived there. But we found a new tract of housing with big, beautiful houses, and across the street was a field full of horses. We got out to look at the and take pictures. Pretty soon a few bold horses came over to say hello and then others followed. It was so much fun. It made the day for Christine.
We bought a curtain rod at Wal-Mart to use as a rod in Cathy's closet. We also bought three balloons for Robby's birthday. They didn't have any good shelves there for her closet though, only plastic drawers. So we found some good shelves at Lowe's. I purchased three of them in off white. Then we walked around the pet store until it was time to pick up Eliza.
After that we went to visit Cathy. Eliza wanted to go as well. She rested mainly while we were there. Christine put together the three beige shelves. Eliza and I helped a little. I got Cathy's closet sorted: the rod hung and two shelves inside. One shelf we put near the entrance to her apartment for her to put her shoes and bags on. After getting those things in order, we all had dinner at Wendy's. It was good to be together. When we got back to Cathy's apartment, we let one of the balloons go and sang "Robby's Lullaby."
Eliza's one wound started bleeding a little on Tuesday which worried us both. But the nurse said that it was normal on Wednesday and that everything still looked good. Still I didn't want Eliza to overdo.
Wednesday morning (9 Feb), Eliza packed everything up as though she were going to stay in Provo that night. I was going to meet my sisters to spend the afternoon and evening. But I really didn't want Eliza staying in her apartment yet. I thought she'd get better care and more rest at Sheila's house. So after I dropped her off at her class, I headed back to Lehi. Christine was doing a little better, too, so we had a chance to get caught up a little bit on her school. Also, Kathy went to the temple with a friend in the morning to do a few Initiatories. She really needed the afternoon to rest. Sheila had a meeting that was supposed to run from 1 until 3, but it got started way late. So things work out all right.
I picked Eliza back up from school and we rented a movie that she had to watch from Blockbuster in Orem. After getting Eliza back to Sheila's, I left her and Christine to go spend the evening with my sisters.
Suzanne and Sheila reached Kathy's place before me, but I wasn't too far behind. We sat and visited for quite a while, reminiscing and talking about gospel things and silly things--just being sisters. Then we went out to eat at Applebee's. (It's funny, Suzanne called me from Kathy's before Sheila or I had arrived and asked if we'd eaten yet. I said, no, and that I was starving. She asked what I wanted to do, and I said that I wanted us all to go out to eat and for Sheila to pay for it.) Sheila did pay for dinner. I knew she would.
After a fun visit at Abblebee's, we again visited at Kathy's. It was the most pleasant evening. It did not feel sad. In fact, it was full of bright hope and testimony. Even though I am sad and teary whenever I think of Kathy leaving this life. It was late when we all returned to our homes.
Thursday morning (10 Feb), I was feeling worried that I really hadn't visited my parents much. I felt sad about that, but I was still thinking that I'd wait for Eliza to be through with class and take her back to Sheila's again. I was thinking that I might need to stay until Saturday or Sunday. But Eliza was up and showered when I first saw her on Thursday. And she was packing to return to her apartment.
I felt peaceful about taking her back and that everything would be okay. I was still hoping that Alex would drop her off at school and pick her up as much as possible. (Usually they walk together.) But I felt my concern lifted to a large degree. Kathy even phoned to see if I could visit her and my mom. And because Eliza was ready to move on, it was possible. (She probably was the whole time; I just wasn't ready to let her go.)
So after Eliza's appointment with the nurse, we went by her apartment and got her things back upstairs. She got some lunch and then I dropped her off for class about an hour early. After that, I picked up Christine and we picked up Kathy, and then we went up to my parents. We got to see Jon and Grandpa and Jonah as well. But Grandpa left for the temple at his usual time. We dropped Grandma off at 4 p.m. So we only had a short time to visit together, but the main thing was just being together.
It is amazing how fast this week is flying, and I might get my letter/journal caught up by the end of it.
After dropping Grandma off at the temple, we picked up Cathy from her apartment. We went to the downtown Lowe's to get three chrome shelves for the kitchen, but they don't carry that size anymore. The store in Murray does. So we drove to Murray so that Cathy could buy those three, too. My sister Kathy was tired out by that time, so we dropped her off at home. Like I said earlier, not a lot of time to visit, but just fun being together. (I hope that wasn't our last meeting in this life. But, by the same token, I hope that she does not have to suffer long. I still keep praying that she will be cured if it's God's will.)
Then we went back to Cathy's apartment to get those shelves set up. Christine put the shelves together and I help Cathy stock them. Her apartment is so much more doable now that she has places to put her things. It really was looking good and it was fun to be able to help her this week. After we finished up, Cathy took Christine and me to dinner (at an Abblebee's again). We ordered two dinners (along with the appetizer) and shared. Still there was quite a bit leftover for Cathy to take home. It was now time to say good-bye to Cathy. I know that we'll be back there in April, but the good-byes are still tender.
Friday (11 Feb) we got an early start, and Christine and I drove home. Not much to say about that, except that it was a beautiful day and we zipped. It was good to be home. Christine and I beat the others home, so we had a chance to unwind. Dad was at work and the boys were at Disneyland. Dad and I went out to eat Friday evening. We checked out a shopping area in Fontana and ended up eating at Panera Bread. We both got a good salad.
Saturday (12 Feb) is a blur. I think that Christine did some school, since she missed doing so much while we were gone. Dad had a training meeting at the stake center; John had class; Tom had a job interview and Cold Stone, then he came home and watched the car and mowed the back lawn. He'd done the front while we were in Utah.
Sun (13 Feb) was so long ago. But it was good to be back to our ward. I really enjoy teaching Gospel Principles. I meant to have this letter caught up much more and be done with the next two weeks as well.
I hope that I can recall those days. I may just have to write a summery of feelings. I love you both. Have a wonderful new week.
Love,
Mom
Sunday, January 30, 2011
January 30, 2011
Dear Cathy,
It's been a good week. Even amidst some goofy squabbles, misunderstandings, or dealing with (or not being able to deal with) the way the young men in the house think, I have wakened each morning happy and excited about life. It is a great life and a wonderful time to be alive. I love it!
It is fun to be able to talk to you or text you whenever. It is such a neat opportunity. We didn't have anything like that when we were young. Long distance calling was kept to a minimum. So I love the technological advantages of today.
As I write these letters each week, I switch off whom I write to first. The first week I goofed and forgot to readdress the letter to Eliza. But you both need to know that I try to write to each of you while thinking of you and not just writing my journal. I guess it's three birds with one stone.
Last Sunday was a fairly normal day, except that Tom got to give his homecoming talk in the single's ward. In our ward, Brandon Spellacy gave his homecoming address. So it was good to see the Spellacy family. Brandon has grown so much. (No he isn't a lot taller. 6'7" is tall enough.) He isn't the same shy boy he was when he left. I then taught Gospel Principles. After that we went to the single's ward to hear both Tom and Brandon speak again. Only Christine stayed at our ward because she loves YW. We all received tickets for the Gladys Knight fireside, but none of us have found anyone to take with. I'm not sure what to do about that. John and Tom have four tickets for this afternoon, and we have five for tonight. Maybe we'll give the four away and just go together this evening, even though that wasn't the purpose of the fireside. I think that sometimes it really is the active members that need the upliftment and strengthening.
Monday, Christine helped out at the library again. I crocheted. She also took her Chemistry final. The boys went to Bishop Anderson's house for family night, but they said only the older adult leaders talked to them. So that's too bad. Dad, Christine, and I had family night here.
Tuesday, Christine took both her Pre-Calculus final and she finished her French final. So that gave us a free day on Wednesday! She went to YW as well and had a good time.
Wednesday, we all went to Disneyland, except Dad worked. Tom and John spent the day together, and Christine and I were glad to have some time to ourselves. We all enjoyed the day. The ride home was a different story. Everyone was tired. Christine was able to trade a couple of pins in the park. That was fun. She also bought a stuffed animal. Yes, another. (She gathered up all the soda bottles and cans on Tuesday afternoon and cashed them in for $20 Wednesday morning.) I applied for a Chase card in Downtown Disney, and because I qualified, I was given a $50 gift card there on the spot. I'll use it on another day. ;-)
Dad and I went to the 7 a.m. session at the temple. It's early, but that is probably what we will do most often from now on. He is up that early every day anyhow, and he's not too late to work that way. It felt good to go to the temple. We were also the witness couple. It was neat to stand in the prayer circle. Each time I've gone lately, the officiator has prayed for those who are sick and afflicted to get well. I've had Aunt Kathy's name on the prayer roll. Later, I was telling Gail Purcell about that, and I said I don't know if that's supposed to make me feel hopeful or not.; She said that it should let me know that Kathy will not be taken one day before her time. I believe that she is absolutely right. Wisdom.
Christine helped out at the library on Thursday since we were at Disneyland on Wednesday. I talked to Aunt Kathy on our drive there. After dropping Christine off, I decided to pop in on Gail. Her cell phone is temporarily disconnected, and I wanted to make sure that she is okay. So we visited for a while. I shared what is going on at our household and she offered more wisdom. Plus I was able to offer insights into her concerns as well. We had a really good visit. Before going to her house, I had taken all of my loose change to the bank and cashed it in for $26. So I convinced Gail to let me take her to lunch. Christine went with us as well. We ate at Coco's and visited some more. I really love Sister Purcell.; She is a wonderful person. She has been a caregiver for so many years: first to her parents; then to Mike's parents; and now to her brother Marty. Plus, she is a wonderful Grandma. So that takes a lot of time and energy.
In the late afternoon, I went to Barbara Staffo's house and met the missionaries there. I played a game of Wii bowling with Lawrence. (He is 14 now.) Then we taught him a first discussion. He is committed for baptism the first Saturday in March, and then he can be confirmed the next day, Fast Sunday, in church. His school teacher came by while we were there to talk to his older brother Juan. He then told me and the missionaries that he'd heard what we were teaching and that he is a believer. He told Lawrence to sit up tall and listen to us and to do what we told him to do that day. So that was a wonderful and helpful support. (Maybe the missionaries will have an opportunity to teach him as well.)
Friday, was a good day. Christine was able to do so much of her school work in her room. She was happier that way. So, thank you, Cathy, for the laptop. I spent the morning listening to the Gospel of Matthew online while I printed up the first units from Christine's classes and planned a schedule for her for the next couple of weeks. We could just go by the teachers', but it is so much better to be a little ahead so that there is breathing room. Tom babysat Jordan again, but they stayed at Muwwakkils' all day. I also gave Sharon Cady a haircut. Tami Nogueroles was at her place as well to help her with a shower, so I trimmed Tami's hair as well. It felt good to do something.
John and Tom went to see the new Tron movie in the late afternoon. So Dad and I took Christine to dinner with us. We ate at Cafe de Rio. Christine had a burrito, Dad had fish tacos, and I had the special which was Mexican pasta. I could only eat half or under, but it was very good. Then we went to Barnes and Noble. That was so much fun. Christine loves to draw. They had a couple of bins full of $2 books. They had both Halloween and Christmas drawing prompt books, so we got her one of each. We also three extras for friends.
Saturday was yesterday. Wow. That was a fast week. I made waffles for breakfast, swept and washed all the floors, and cleaned the bathrooms. Dad did the laundry and ironing and watched a Bob Dylan concert. Tom did a lot of studying. Christine did a couple of chores as well. The boys exercised and played basketball.
And this morning, I'm writing my letters.
I hope that you had a good week, Cathy, and that this next one will be even better. Did you go to the recital last night? If so, how was it? What are you looking forward to in the new week? I know that you'll do wonderfully well in your new class. I hope that you are still enjoying work as well, and I hope that the air quality will improve this week.
I love you so much.
Be happy and clap your hands.
Love,
Mom
Dear Eliza,
Same letter
And this morning, I'm writing my letters.
I hope that you had a good week, Eliza, and that this next one will be even better. The picture of the ring you sent me is very beautiful. Thanks for sharing your excitement with me. This is really a fun time of life. Enjoy it. Stay close to the Spirit, and always heed His promptings. Keep me informed.
I love you so much.
Be happy and clap your hands.
Love,
Mom
It's been a good week. Even amidst some goofy squabbles, misunderstandings, or dealing with (or not being able to deal with) the way the young men in the house think, I have wakened each morning happy and excited about life. It is a great life and a wonderful time to be alive. I love it!
It is fun to be able to talk to you or text you whenever. It is such a neat opportunity. We didn't have anything like that when we were young. Long distance calling was kept to a minimum. So I love the technological advantages of today.
As I write these letters each week, I switch off whom I write to first. The first week I goofed and forgot to readdress the letter to Eliza. But you both need to know that I try to write to each of you while thinking of you and not just writing my journal. I guess it's three birds with one stone.
Last Sunday was a fairly normal day, except that Tom got to give his homecoming talk in the single's ward. In our ward, Brandon Spellacy gave his homecoming address. So it was good to see the Spellacy family. Brandon has grown so much. (No he isn't a lot taller. 6'7" is tall enough.) He isn't the same shy boy he was when he left. I then taught Gospel Principles. After that we went to the single's ward to hear both Tom and Brandon speak again. Only Christine stayed at our ward because she loves YW. We all received tickets for the Gladys Knight fireside, but none of us have found anyone to take with. I'm not sure what to do about that. John and Tom have four tickets for this afternoon, and we have five for tonight. Maybe we'll give the four away and just go together this evening, even though that wasn't the purpose of the fireside. I think that sometimes it really is the active members that need the upliftment and strengthening.
Monday, Christine helped out at the library again. I crocheted. She also took her Chemistry final. The boys went to Bishop Anderson's house for family night, but they said only the older adult leaders talked to them. So that's too bad. Dad, Christine, and I had family night here.
Tuesday, Christine took both her Pre-Calculus final and she finished her French final. So that gave us a free day on Wednesday! She went to YW as well and had a good time.
Wednesday, we all went to Disneyland, except Dad worked. Tom and John spent the day together, and Christine and I were glad to have some time to ourselves. We all enjoyed the day. The ride home was a different story. Everyone was tired. Christine was able to trade a couple of pins in the park. That was fun. She also bought a stuffed animal. Yes, another. (She gathered up all the soda bottles and cans on Tuesday afternoon and cashed them in for $20 Wednesday morning.) I applied for a Chase card in Downtown Disney, and because I qualified, I was given a $50 gift card there on the spot. I'll use it on another day. ;-)
Dad and I went to the 7 a.m. session at the temple. It's early, but that is probably what we will do most often from now on. He is up that early every day anyhow, and he's not too late to work that way. It felt good to go to the temple. We were also the witness couple. It was neat to stand in the prayer circle. Each time I've gone lately, the officiator has prayed for those who are sick and afflicted to get well. I've had Aunt Kathy's name on the prayer roll. Later, I was telling Gail Purcell about that, and I said I don't know if that's supposed to make me feel hopeful or not.; She said that it should let me know that Kathy will not be taken one day before her time. I believe that she is absolutely right. Wisdom.
Christine helped out at the library on Thursday since we were at Disneyland on Wednesday. I talked to Aunt Kathy on our drive there. After dropping Christine off, I decided to pop in on Gail. Her cell phone is temporarily disconnected, and I wanted to make sure that she is okay. So we visited for a while. I shared what is going on at our household and she offered more wisdom. Plus I was able to offer insights into her concerns as well. We had a really good visit. Before going to her house, I had taken all of my loose change to the bank and cashed it in for $26. So I convinced Gail to let me take her to lunch. Christine went with us as well. We ate at Coco's and visited some more. I really love Sister Purcell.; She is a wonderful person. She has been a caregiver for so many years: first to her parents; then to Mike's parents; and now to her brother Marty. Plus, she is a wonderful Grandma. So that takes a lot of time and energy.
In the late afternoon, I went to Barbara Staffo's house and met the missionaries there. I played a game of Wii bowling with Lawrence. (He is 14 now.) Then we taught him a first discussion. He is committed for baptism the first Saturday in March, and then he can be confirmed the next day, Fast Sunday, in church. His school teacher came by while we were there to talk to his older brother Juan. He then told me and the missionaries that he'd heard what we were teaching and that he is a believer. He told Lawrence to sit up tall and listen to us and to do what we told him to do that day. So that was a wonderful and helpful support. (Maybe the missionaries will have an opportunity to teach him as well.)
Friday, was a good day. Christine was able to do so much of her school work in her room. She was happier that way. So, thank you, Cathy, for the laptop. I spent the morning listening to the Gospel of Matthew online while I printed up the first units from Christine's classes and planned a schedule for her for the next couple of weeks. We could just go by the teachers', but it is so much better to be a little ahead so that there is breathing room. Tom babysat Jordan again, but they stayed at Muwwakkils' all day. I also gave Sharon Cady a haircut. Tami Nogueroles was at her place as well to help her with a shower, so I trimmed Tami's hair as well. It felt good to do something.
John and Tom went to see the new Tron movie in the late afternoon. So Dad and I took Christine to dinner with us. We ate at Cafe de Rio. Christine had a burrito, Dad had fish tacos, and I had the special which was Mexican pasta. I could only eat half or under, but it was very good. Then we went to Barnes and Noble. That was so much fun. Christine loves to draw. They had a couple of bins full of $2 books. They had both Halloween and Christmas drawing prompt books, so we got her one of each. We also three extras for friends.
Saturday was yesterday. Wow. That was a fast week. I made waffles for breakfast, swept and washed all the floors, and cleaned the bathrooms. Dad did the laundry and ironing and watched a Bob Dylan concert. Tom did a lot of studying. Christine did a couple of chores as well. The boys exercised and played basketball.
And this morning, I'm writing my letters.
I hope that you had a good week, Cathy, and that this next one will be even better. Did you go to the recital last night? If so, how was it? What are you looking forward to in the new week? I know that you'll do wonderfully well in your new class. I hope that you are still enjoying work as well, and I hope that the air quality will improve this week.
I love you so much.
Be happy and clap your hands.
Love,
Mom
Dear Eliza,
Same letter
And this morning, I'm writing my letters.
I hope that you had a good week, Eliza, and that this next one will be even better. The picture of the ring you sent me is very beautiful. Thanks for sharing your excitement with me. This is really a fun time of life. Enjoy it. Stay close to the Spirit, and always heed His promptings. Keep me informed.
I love you so much.
Be happy and clap your hands.
Love,
Mom
Sunday, January 23, 2011
January 23, 2011
Dear Eliza,
I had a really nice experience last week. At actually began the Sunday before. Two Sundays ago, Bishop Lomenick asked us to fast for the Thomas family. Little Riley was born with Apert's Syndrome. (I didn't know the name for it then, but I've looked it up on line since and Sister Marcia Stewart confirmed to me that's what it is last week.) I was saying my personal prayers some time during the week after that, and the thought came to me, What would I say if I were asked to pray in church? So I continued my prayer concerning the Thomas family and was led to pray very specific things. Then last Sunday as a walked into the chapel, Brother Sinsel greeted me and he seemed to hesitate. I had the feeling that he was thinking of asking me to say the opening prayer, but he didn't. After I sat down, Bishop Lomenick and Brother Sinsel were talking on the stand. I heard the Bishop say, "Well, there's Heidi." After that Bishop Lomenick walked down and said, "Since your son isn't here, can you say the opening prayer." John was there; he just hadn't entered the chapel yet. So I was able to vocalize a clear and meaningful prayer, still being led by the Spirit to know what to ask for this family. I am so glad for the experience.
Another nice happening: I talked to my sister Kathy during the week. We didn't hide the fact that her body is being taken over by her cancer. I told her that I'd said to John how thankful I am that she could see Spencer get married and spend time with her grandson. Then I'd said how sad I was to think that she might not (or probably won't) be at her daughters' weddings. (This thought brings tears to my eyes every time I think it.) John's replay was that I might not be here for any of my children's weddings. That's true. Life is uncertain. Kathy told me that she was certain that she would find ways to be a part of her children's lives. And I know that is true. She will often be with them.
Kathy told me that Cindy is having a hard time watching her go through this and remembering her mother dying of cancer when she was a little girl. We talked about how this is affecting both family and friends. Ted, a friend of Kathy's, saw Grandpa in the temple. He expressed how sad he was that Kathy has to go through this. Later, he told Kathy that Grandpa looked grief-stricken. Then he said that it isn't right; he's already buried a son; he shouldn't have to lose another child. That is so sad. I know that Grandma is likewise grief-stricken, so remember them in your prayers.
I don't think that we ever fully know in this life what a profound effect our lives have on others. The world is constantly changing with the births and deaths of each individual. Truly we are children of God, and our lives are not only important to Him, but to everyone we come in contact with. Kathy is indeed loved and will be missed.
Yesterday I was looking at photos of Stephen Elliott. He is my second cousin. His mother Pearl is Billy Brennan's sister. They are children of Olive McGee Brennan who is Nana's (Pearl McGee Jamison) sister. Nana, of course, is your grandmother's mother. Anyhow, as I looked at Stephen, I saw a strong resemblance to Ed. Stephen is near 40 now, the age at which Ed passed away. Dad said that I told him before that Ed has a lot of McGee in him. So I guess he really does and that he was named correctly: Edward McGee Sommerfeld.
So last Sunday was a good day. We had a good fast. After that I came home and made homemade rolls and chicken cooked in rice-a-roni. It was a good day.
Monday was a holiday, but Christine still worked on school, and mainly it felt like another Saturday because we all just got caught up on things that we needed to do: cleaning and such. Dad ran some errands. Dad barbecued chicken in the evening. We had family night early; then Tom went to a young adult family night as well. He had a good time.
I am also crocheting a blanket for Christine. So I've worked on that throughout the week. I'm about half way done. It is a busy project.
Tuesday everyone was back to work and back to school. It is so much easier to do homeschooling without the crowd. Tuesday evening, I drove Barbara Staffo's grandson Lawrence to YM/YW since I was taking Christine anyhow. I picked up some skirts from Barbara that needed new elastic in them. She said that she won't come to church umtil she has a skirt to wear, and she didn't want to buy any new ones. She gave me three that need elastic, and I returned one of them when I took Lawrence home; so, hopefully she will come to church now. We'll see.
Tom is getting tired of just having classes all day long on Tuesday and Thursday and no job the other days. He was really discouraged last night. I hope he finds something soon. But I can't remember anything out of the ordinary last Wednesday.
Thursday Tom had classes of course, but John took the day off work. Christine did some school in the morning and took a chemistry test, then John, Christine, and I went to Disneyland for a few hours. We spent our time in California Adventure and only went to Disneyland to get the pineapple ice cream. Then we went on Buzz Lightyear before we left. It was a really pleasant day. And it was nice to leave the strong winds behind us for a very light breeze. Nothing was crowded. It was really a pleasant day.
Friday Tom watched Jordan all day. He stayed at Muwwakkils' all morning while Christine did some schoolwork and took her World Studies final. She got an 88%, plus she is supposed to recieve 10 extra credit points for taking the test on time. If she does, she'll have a 99% in the class instead of a 98%. Hahaha.
After lunch and Tom and Jordan coming over, we all went to Ford Park. I videoed Christine and Jordan feeding the ducks. Tom and John just stayed on the lower field to play ball. After videoing for a while, I fed the ducks, too. It was a lot of fun. Then Jordan and Christine ran the length of that big lawn and back. Then your brothers played catch with the football, Christine kicked around a soccer ball, and Jordan took a rest. I had fun taking still pictures of action. I think some of them turned out really well, too. When we returned from the park, Tom took Jordan back to his house until his parents returned. That was good.
Friday, nothing too new. School. Dad and I ate at Dickey's, a good Texas barbecue place. It's just so necessary for us to get away alone for a couple hours now and then. I'm so thankful that it is a habit.
Saturday, I cleaned the kitchen a few times. I cooked our huge chub of ground turkey. I made some shepherd's pie for Saturday dinner and some enchilda casserole for Sunday's. I gave myself a needed haircut, and I also gave Dad a haircut. Tom went out with a girl, just to Starbucks, to just chat and catch up. John had class all day long. I think hed also stayed up really late Friday to get his homework all finished. So he was tired.
John did a great job teaching us how to waltz. I didn't know that he was such a good dance instructor, but he did a really fine job. I will now be able to follow Dad's lead so much better. Not a lot of people came, but everyone who did was involved and had a great time. Brother Muwwakkil was there late to set up because no one had actually asked him to be the DJ. But he was really gracious and is willing to do it just as a service every month. Awesome. After the instruction was over, people were free to visit or dance how they wanted. John left at that point because he was really tired.
Tom didn't go, and I wish he would have. He didn't want to go without a date, but John had us keep rotating partners so that we would really learn it and help each other. Christine didn't want to go either, but Lilly Florez was there, so I sent Dad back home to pick Christine up. She had a great time. (So she left her French final half finished. I'm glad. The French program allows you to open and close the program without being locked out. She can't do that in tests in other classes.) I also got some video coverage and pictures last night.
That brings us to the present. I'm glad Sunday dinner is already arranged. Brandon Spellacy is speaking in our ward today, and Tom is speaking in the single's ward.
Thanks for sharing your excitement of ring hunting. I hope that you both have a wonderful semester. Stay prayerful and happy and enjoy this time in your life, wherever it leads you.
I love you so much, my little Dolly.
Talk to you soon.
Love,
Mom
Dear Cathy,
(Same Letter different ending)
It's been good to talk to you a little more lately. I really do love you so much, and you are in our thoughts and prayers. I hope that you have a wonderful new week. Let me know the exciting things that you are doing.
Talk to you soon.
Love,
Mom
I had a really nice experience last week. At actually began the Sunday before. Two Sundays ago, Bishop Lomenick asked us to fast for the Thomas family. Little Riley was born with Apert's Syndrome. (I didn't know the name for it then, but I've looked it up on line since and Sister Marcia Stewart confirmed to me that's what it is last week.) I was saying my personal prayers some time during the week after that, and the thought came to me, What would I say if I were asked to pray in church? So I continued my prayer concerning the Thomas family and was led to pray very specific things. Then last Sunday as a walked into the chapel, Brother Sinsel greeted me and he seemed to hesitate. I had the feeling that he was thinking of asking me to say the opening prayer, but he didn't. After I sat down, Bishop Lomenick and Brother Sinsel were talking on the stand. I heard the Bishop say, "Well, there's Heidi." After that Bishop Lomenick walked down and said, "Since your son isn't here, can you say the opening prayer." John was there; he just hadn't entered the chapel yet. So I was able to vocalize a clear and meaningful prayer, still being led by the Spirit to know what to ask for this family. I am so glad for the experience.
Another nice happening: I talked to my sister Kathy during the week. We didn't hide the fact that her body is being taken over by her cancer. I told her that I'd said to John how thankful I am that she could see Spencer get married and spend time with her grandson. Then I'd said how sad I was to think that she might not (or probably won't) be at her daughters' weddings. (This thought brings tears to my eyes every time I think it.) John's replay was that I might not be here for any of my children's weddings. That's true. Life is uncertain. Kathy told me that she was certain that she would find ways to be a part of her children's lives. And I know that is true. She will often be with them.
Kathy told me that Cindy is having a hard time watching her go through this and remembering her mother dying of cancer when she was a little girl. We talked about how this is affecting both family and friends. Ted, a friend of Kathy's, saw Grandpa in the temple. He expressed how sad he was that Kathy has to go through this. Later, he told Kathy that Grandpa looked grief-stricken. Then he said that it isn't right; he's already buried a son; he shouldn't have to lose another child. That is so sad. I know that Grandma is likewise grief-stricken, so remember them in your prayers.
I don't think that we ever fully know in this life what a profound effect our lives have on others. The world is constantly changing with the births and deaths of each individual. Truly we are children of God, and our lives are not only important to Him, but to everyone we come in contact with. Kathy is indeed loved and will be missed.
Yesterday I was looking at photos of Stephen Elliott. He is my second cousin. His mother Pearl is Billy Brennan's sister. They are children of Olive McGee Brennan who is Nana's (Pearl McGee Jamison) sister. Nana, of course, is your grandmother's mother. Anyhow, as I looked at Stephen, I saw a strong resemblance to Ed. Stephen is near 40 now, the age at which Ed passed away. Dad said that I told him before that Ed has a lot of McGee in him. So I guess he really does and that he was named correctly: Edward McGee Sommerfeld.
So last Sunday was a good day. We had a good fast. After that I came home and made homemade rolls and chicken cooked in rice-a-roni. It was a good day.
Monday was a holiday, but Christine still worked on school, and mainly it felt like another Saturday because we all just got caught up on things that we needed to do: cleaning and such. Dad ran some errands. Dad barbecued chicken in the evening. We had family night early; then Tom went to a young adult family night as well. He had a good time.
I am also crocheting a blanket for Christine. So I've worked on that throughout the week. I'm about half way done. It is a busy project.
Tuesday everyone was back to work and back to school. It is so much easier to do homeschooling without the crowd. Tuesday evening, I drove Barbara Staffo's grandson Lawrence to YM/YW since I was taking Christine anyhow. I picked up some skirts from Barbara that needed new elastic in them. She said that she won't come to church umtil she has a skirt to wear, and she didn't want to buy any new ones. She gave me three that need elastic, and I returned one of them when I took Lawrence home; so, hopefully she will come to church now. We'll see.
Tom is getting tired of just having classes all day long on Tuesday and Thursday and no job the other days. He was really discouraged last night. I hope he finds something soon. But I can't remember anything out of the ordinary last Wednesday.
Thursday Tom had classes of course, but John took the day off work. Christine did some school in the morning and took a chemistry test, then John, Christine, and I went to Disneyland for a few hours. We spent our time in California Adventure and only went to Disneyland to get the pineapple ice cream. Then we went on Buzz Lightyear before we left. It was a really pleasant day. And it was nice to leave the strong winds behind us for a very light breeze. Nothing was crowded. It was really a pleasant day.
Friday Tom watched Jordan all day. He stayed at Muwwakkils' all morning while Christine did some schoolwork and took her World Studies final. She got an 88%, plus she is supposed to recieve 10 extra credit points for taking the test on time. If she does, she'll have a 99% in the class instead of a 98%. Hahaha.
After lunch and Tom and Jordan coming over, we all went to Ford Park. I videoed Christine and Jordan feeding the ducks. Tom and John just stayed on the lower field to play ball. After videoing for a while, I fed the ducks, too. It was a lot of fun. Then Jordan and Christine ran the length of that big lawn and back. Then your brothers played catch with the football, Christine kicked around a soccer ball, and Jordan took a rest. I had fun taking still pictures of action. I think some of them turned out really well, too. When we returned from the park, Tom took Jordan back to his house until his parents returned. That was good.
Friday, nothing too new. School. Dad and I ate at Dickey's, a good Texas barbecue place. It's just so necessary for us to get away alone for a couple hours now and then. I'm so thankful that it is a habit.
Saturday, I cleaned the kitchen a few times. I cooked our huge chub of ground turkey. I made some shepherd's pie for Saturday dinner and some enchilda casserole for Sunday's. I gave myself a needed haircut, and I also gave Dad a haircut. Tom went out with a girl, just to Starbucks, to just chat and catch up. John had class all day long. I think hed also stayed up really late Friday to get his homework all finished. So he was tired.
John did a great job teaching us how to waltz. I didn't know that he was such a good dance instructor, but he did a really fine job. I will now be able to follow Dad's lead so much better. Not a lot of people came, but everyone who did was involved and had a great time. Brother Muwwakkil was there late to set up because no one had actually asked him to be the DJ. But he was really gracious and is willing to do it just as a service every month. Awesome. After the instruction was over, people were free to visit or dance how they wanted. John left at that point because he was really tired.
Tom didn't go, and I wish he would have. He didn't want to go without a date, but John had us keep rotating partners so that we would really learn it and help each other. Christine didn't want to go either, but Lilly Florez was there, so I sent Dad back home to pick Christine up. She had a great time. (So she left her French final half finished. I'm glad. The French program allows you to open and close the program without being locked out. She can't do that in tests in other classes.) I also got some video coverage and pictures last night.
That brings us to the present. I'm glad Sunday dinner is already arranged. Brandon Spellacy is speaking in our ward today, and Tom is speaking in the single's ward.
Thanks for sharing your excitement of ring hunting. I hope that you both have a wonderful semester. Stay prayerful and happy and enjoy this time in your life, wherever it leads you.
I love you so much, my little Dolly.
Talk to you soon.
Love,
Mom
Dear Cathy,
(Same Letter different ending)
It's been good to talk to you a little more lately. I really do love you so much, and you are in our thoughts and prayers. I hope that you have a wonderful new week. Let me know the exciting things that you are doing.
Talk to you soon.
Love,
Mom
January 16, 2011
Dear Cathy,
How are things going for you? I have decided to keep writing letters even though kids are home from missions. That way I'll have a journal, and I will know a little about what is going on in your life. It's been a couple of weeks, so I need to do this before it is insurmountable.
Monday, 3 January 2011, was an exciting day. Aunt Kathy came up to your Grandparents' home to visit me since we would be leaving early the next day. My emotions during this day were very up and down. There was so much to feel happy about and so much to feel sad about, in saying good-bye to family. Eliza had barely gotten home, and we needed to drop her off at BYU. And many changes are ahead in life for all of us. We also needed to drop you off at your own little apartment and say good-bye for a few months. And I needed to say good-bye to my family of origin after a wonderful holiday with them. Aunt Kathy's cancer has progressed through so much of her body, making me feel uncertain as to whether I will see her again in this life or not.
In the afternoon, we all went to the museum at BYU. We saw the Carl Bloch exhibit. We also saw an exhibit by another artist. During this time, I thought I was just feeling emotional because of the wonderful artwork and because of the wonderful holiday and because of the impending good-byes. Later, I realized that I was probably coming down with the flu that you and your sisters had the two days before. Carl Bloch's interpretations on seen from Jesus's life and his other paintings were just remarkable. While the other artist was also extremely talented, I enjoyed Bloch's paintings so much more. He captured how we feel.
We had dinner at Village Inn, and I ate a lot! I think we were all hungry and enjoyed our last supper together. Then we had to say good-bye to Eliza and then to you. Earlier in the day I'd been teary about leaving Eliza behind. But back at her apartment, I expressed my excitement for her in starting a new semester and for all of the wonderful things awaiting her. Christine told me that I am bi-polar. I am glad that we stayed a little longer when we dropped you off as well. We love you very much and want you to feel happy, safe, and loved. I felt sad that we had to leave the next morning. I should have spent more time with you.
Tuesday was our drive home. Grandma made a big breakfast even though I'd asked her not to. I think Dad and everyone else enjoyed it though. I was feeling sick, and the smell of the bacon was revolting. (Usually I love bacon.) Actually, I really didn't eat anything until somewhere between Vegas and Barstow. Dad wanted to stop first thing to check his tires, and I told him I was just going to start home. We did not caravan this trip. Christine and I just pretty much blew through. It was a pretty drive none-the-less. John and Dad arrived home about an hour after us.
The house was so cold when we got home. I immediately turned on the heat. After the car was unpacked, I decided to take a hot bath, which was really rather cool. So it didn't last long. I was finally hungry, and did a little shopping and got me a lovely can of chicken and rice soup for dinner. (I like that so much better than chicken noodle.) I went to bed pretty early.
Wednesday. Tommy came home! Christine already missed a couple of days of school and she did a little work on Wednesday, but she was working like crazy last week and this week to make sure everything is done. The next two weeks are finals, and I am sure she will do well. Wednesday morning, I was back to work, getting the living room and Tom's bedroom (dining room) tidied and vacuumed.
It was exciting to go to the airport again. There were people coming down the escalator soon after we arrived, so I had my video camera ready, even though we didn't know if they were from Tom's plane. Well they were, and I should not have answered a phone call. Someone called from Eliza's insurance, and I was talking to her when I saw Tommy. That pretty much ruins a video. So I started a new one and asked if I could call her back. She kept talking, so I basically hung up. I wish I hadn't taken that call. I missed a special moment that I can't bring back. (At least I wasn't fully involved in it.)
Like Eliza, Tom also wanted Mexican food for lunch. We enjoyed a good lunch and then drove home. Tommy spent the day getting settled back in.
Thursday Dad returned to work. Tom continued unpacking and organizing. Christine and I continued her school work. It was a stressful day, just trying to get back into the swing of things.
Thursday evening, Tommy was released from his mission. President Poulsen, Dad, and John gave him a blessing. Like always, the president had only good things to say about our family, and he expressed awe and thanks for Tom's wonderful service.
Friday, more cleaning. Dad and I had our date night. I think we went to Coco's. Needed break. Don't recall Saturday much, if at all. Yes, now I remember. In the morning, Tom and I went to the bookstore and got his books. One of them, we ordered on-line. We went to Costco on Saturday and shopping for Tom's computer. We bought an upgrade from Windows Starter to Windows Home Edition which we were able to use from Tom's, Eliza's, and my computers. Yippee.
Sunday was Tom's homecoming. It was lovely. He really talked for a long time, too. I taped his talk, but I did not video it this time. I still need to upload it so you can hear it. I also taped what President Poulsen had to say at the end of the meeting. Grandpa and Grandma came, and Uncle Kris, Aunt Vicki, and Todd. Also, Sharon Willis and her daughter Brittney came.
The Bishop asked our ward to fast the following Sunday (today) for the Thomas family. JR and Summer just had a baby girl that was born with some physical problems that will require many surgeries.
I enjoyed being back to teach Sunday school. Gospel Principles is a great class. I love it.
We had pulled pork sandwiches for dinner. (Dad cooked the meat.) I made potato salad; Vicki brought a nice green salad, and Grandma brought a pasta salad and lemon bars for Tom. We had fun being together. We had Costco cake and ice cream for dessert.
Monday, 10 January 2011, Christine started back to Seminary. She also got quite a bit of school done before going to the library. I went to the bank to close Eliza's accounts, and then I sat in the parking lot and crocheted. I crocheted a baby blanket for Riley Thomas (from Monday to Wednesday). Now I just need to know when I can give it to them.
John didn't work this Monday, so he and Tom ran errands together. I made chocolate chip cookies and oatmeal raisin for the open house. We also had the Costco cake for that.
Monday evening we had an open house for Tommy. Carri and Sammi came; plus, the Chamberlains, the Goudys, and the Lomenicks. Jason and Leanna Stevens also came with their four kids. It was so great to see them. It was a fun evening. I'm glad we did it.
Tuesday Tommy started classes. He goes from 8 until 4 on Tuesdays and Thursdays. John also worked. So Christine and I had the house to ourselves pretty much the whole day. The first time in ages. We enjoyed a quiet day and accomplished a lot.
Wednesday, Christine helped at the library again. Tom babysat Jordan Muwwakkil. So while Christine was at the library, we went to the park along with Gail Purcell and a little boy she was babysitting. There is a beautiful park on Greenspot, and it was a gorgeous day. The kids enjoyed playing at the playground, playing tag with Tom, and walking through the orange trees. We ate some oranges and took many home. I hope that's okay. They are part of the park, and there is no sign that says not to eat them. Delicious.
Thursday, Tom back to school. Another quiet day at home. So necessary for homeschoolers. Dad left work in the afternoon to fly to Sacramento for leadership training committe meetings. A few of them met for dinner Thursday night, and then they were in meetings all day Friday. The rest of us watched a movie in my room that night. Scott Pilgrim versus the world. It was weird, but produced a lot of laughs.
Friday was an interesting day. Everybody except Dad was home. None of us got a good night's sleep (except John) Thursday night. The wind was howling and crashing into the house most the night. Cans were flying back and forth across the patio, etc. Christine was still getting ready for Seminary when there was a brown out. I wasn't excited about driving her there, and told her that I didn't want to go out in that. When we had a complete blackout just before 6 a.m. that decided it. I just told her she wasn't going. They may have had no electricity at the church as well. Christine, Tom, and I all went back to bed for a while. (Until John got up and was singing in the shower at the top of his lungs. Someone slept well anyhow.)
Christine got busy with school, but it is much harder when people are talking or doing Wii or vying for attention. (John didn't work on Friday.) Tom was gone all afternoon. He took an old friend to lunch and they enjoyed visiting together. I had started on a blanket that I told Christine I'd make for her, but they were out of the color at Walmart. (Dad looked at Highland's Walmart on Saturday, and they were out there, too. I hope they'll have it again. I hope that it isn't a color I found in Utah and not here.) John fixes himself dinner early, and Tom was full from lunch, so Christine and I shared a Subway sandwich.
Dad got home in the evening. I was pretty tired. When it is too late for reading a whole chapter of scripture, we just have someone share a few. So Tom did that on Friday. I wish we'd just gone straight to the prayer, because it turned into a drama session. Christine was wise and just went upstairs. By the time we finally had prayers, I just felt pretty much discouraged and done with everything. Well, you live and learn. Next time, we'll have a quick prayer. I was so overtired and glad to get to sleep.
Saturday, yesterday, John had class all day. Christine still had some school to do to be caught up for finals. But we got her room into shape first. Then she vacuumed it. Tom and I spent a good part of the day vacuuming, cleaning bathrooms, and doing laundry. I also mopped the floors. Dad worked on his talks a good part of the day. (He is speaking in the Spanish ward and 1st ward today.) He also ran a couple of errands. I made spaghetti for Tom and Christine, and then Dad and I went out to eat at Souplantation. When we got back, we had scripture time early, and I went to bed fairly early. Today we are fasting for the Thomas family and their little baby girl. I need to get ready for church and read my lesson.
I hope that you have had a good couple of weeks. Tell me about the Hansel and Gretel play (in English). How is your class going? What fun things have you been doing?
I love you so much. Thanks for ready my journal entry. Have a fabulous week, and we'll talk soon.
Love,
Mom
Dear Eliza,
How are things going for you? I have decided to keep writing letters even though kids are home from missions. That way I'll have a journal, and I will know a little about what is going on in your life. It's been a couple of weeks, so I need to do this before it is insurmountable.
Monday, 3 January 2011, was an exciting day. Aunt Kathy came up to your Grandparents' home to visit me since we would be leaving early the next day. My emotions during this day were very up and down. There was so much to feel happy about and so much to feel sad about, in saying good-bye to family. Our Eliza had barely gotten home, and we needed to drop her off at BYU. And many changes are ahead in life for all of us. We also needed to drop Cathy off at your own little apartment and say good-bye for a few months. And I needed to say good-bye to my family of origin after a wonderful holiday with them. Aunt Kathy's cancer has progressed through so much of her body, making me feel uncertain as to whether I will see her again in this life or not.
In the afternoon, we all went to the museum at BYU. We saw the Carl Bloch exhibit. We also saw an exhibit by another artist. During this time, I thought I was just feeling emotional because of the wonderful artwork and because of the wonderful holiday and because of the impending good-byes. Later, I realized that I was probably coming down with the flu that you and your sisters had the two days before. Carl Bloch's interpretations on seen from Jesus's life and his other paintings were just remarkable. While the other artist was also extremely talented, I enjoyed Bloch's paintings so much more. He captured how we feel.
We had dinner at Village Inn, and I ate a lot! I think we were all hungry and enjoyed our last supper together. Then we had to say good-bye to Eliza and then to Cathy. Earlier in the day I'd been teary about leaving Eliza behind. But back at her apartment, I expressed my excitement for her in starting a new semester and for all of the wonderful things awaiting her. Christine told me that I am bi-polar. I am glad that we stayed a little longer when we dropped Cathy off as well. We love her very much and want all of you to feel happy, safe, and loved. I felt sad that we had to leave the next morning. I should have spent more time with my girls.
Tuesday was our drive home. Grandma made a big breakfast even though I'd asked her not to. I think Dad and everyone else enjoyed it though. I was feeling sick, and the smell of the bacon was revolting. (Usually, I love bacon.) Actually, I really didn't eat anything until somewhere between Vegas and Barstow. Dad wanted to stop first thing to check his tires, and I told him I was just going to start home. We did not caravan this trip. Christine and I just pretty much blew through. It was a pretty drive none-the-less. John and Dad arrived home about an hour after us.
The house was so cold when we got home. I immediately turned on the heat. After the car was unpacked, I decided to take a hot bath, which was really rather cool. So it didn't last long. I was finally hungry, and did a little shopping and got me a lovely can of chicken and rice soup for dinner. (I like that so much better than chicken noodle.) I went to bed pretty early.
Wednesday. Tommy came home! Christine already missed a couple of days of school and she did a little work on Wednesday, but she was working like crazy last week and this week to make sure everything is done. The next two weeks are finals, and I am sure she will do well. Wednesday morning, I was back to work, getting the living room and Tom's bedroom (dining room) tidied and vacuumed.
It was exciting to go to the airport again. There were people coming down the escalator soon after we arrived, so I had my video camera ready, even though we didn't know if they were from Tom's plane. Well they were, and I should not have answered a phone call. Someone called from missionary insurance, and I was talking to her when I saw Tommy. That pretty much ruins a video. So I started a new one and asked if I could call her back. She kept talking, so I basically hung up. I wish I hadn't taken that call. I missed a special moment that I can't bring back. (At least I wasn't fully involved in it.)
Like you, Tom also wanted Mexican food for lunch. We enjoyed a good lunch and then drove home. Tommy spent the day getting settled back in.
Thursday Dad returned to work. Tom continued unpacking and organizing. Christine and I continued her school work. It was a stressful day, just trying to get back into the swing of things.
Thursday evening, Tommy was released from his mission. President Poulsen, Dad, and John gave him a blessing. Like always, the president had only good things to say about our family, and he expressed awe and thanks for Tom's wonderful service.
Friday, more cleaning. Dad and I had our date night. I think we went to Coco's. Needed break. Don't recall Saturday much, if at all. Yes, now I remember. In the morning, Tom and I went to the bookstore and got his books. One of them, we ordered on-line. We went to Costco on Saturday and shopping for Tom's computer. We bought an upgrade from Windows Starter to Windows Home Edition which we were able to use from Tom's, Eliza's, and my computers. Yippee.
Sunday was Tom's homecoming. It was lovely. He really talked for a long time, too. I taped his talk, but I did not video it this time. I still need to upload it so you can hear it. I also taped what President Poulsen had to say at the end of the meeting. Grandpa and Grandma came, and Uncle Kris, Aunt Vicki, and Todd. Also, Sharon Willis and her daughter Brittney came.
The Bishop asked our ward to fast the following Sunday (today) for the Thomas family. JR and Summer just had a baby girl that was born with some physical problems that will require many surgeries.
I enjoyed being back to teach Sunday school. Gospel Principles is a great class. I love it.
We had pulled pork sandwiches for dinner. (Dad cooked the meat.) I made potato salad; Vicki brought a nice green salad, and Grandma brought a pasta salad and lemon bars for Tom. We had fun being together. We had Costco cake and ice cream for dessert.
Monday, 10 January 2011, Christine started back to Seminary. She also got quite a bit of school done before going to the library. I went to the bank to close Eliza's accounts, and then I sat in the parking lot and crocheted. I crocheted a baby blanket for Riley Thomas (from Monday to Wednesday). Now I just need to know when I can give it to them.
John didn't work this Monday, so he and Tom ran errands together. I made chocolate chip cookies and oatmeal raisin for the open house. We also had the Costco cake for that.
Monday evening we had an open house for Tommy. Carri and Sammi came; plus, the Chamberlains, the Goudys, and the Lomenicks. Jason and Leanna Stevens also came with their four kids. It was so great to see them. It was a fun evening. I'm glad we did it.
Tuesday Tommy started classes. He goes from 8 until 4 on Tuesdays and Thursdays. John also worked. So Christine and I had the house to ourselves pretty much the whole day. The first time in ages. We enjoyed a quiet day and accomplished a lot.
Wednesday, Christine helped at the library again. Tom babysat Jordan Muwwakkil. So while Christine was at the library, we went to the park along with Gail Purcell and a little boy she was babysitting. There is a beautiful park on Greenspot, and it was a gorgeous day. The kids enjoyed playing at the playground, playing tag with Tom, and walking through the orange trees. We ate some oranges and took many home. I hope that's okay. They are part of the park, and there is no sign that says not to eat them. Delicious.
Thursday, Tom back to school. Another quiet day at home. So necessary for homeschoolers. Dad left work in the afternoon to fly to Sacramento for leadership training committe meetings. A few of them met for dinner Thursday night, and then they were in meetings all day Friday. The rest of us watched a movie in my room that night. Scott Pilgrim versus the world. It was weird, but produced a lot of laughs.
Friday was an interesting day. Everybody except Dad was home. None of us got a good night's sleep (except John) Thursday night. The wind was howling and crashing into the house most the night. Cans were flying back and forth across the patio, etc. Christine was still getting ready for Seminary when there was a brown out. I wasn't excited about driving her there, and told her that I didn't want to go out in that. When we had a complete blackout just before 6 a.m. that decided it. I just told her she wasn't going. They may have had no electricity at the church as well. Christine, Tom, and I all went back to bed for a while. (Until John got up and was singing in the shower at the top of his lungs. Someone slept well anyhow.)
Christine got busy with school, but it is much harder when people are talking or doing Wii or vying for attention. (John didn't work on Friday.) Tom was gone all afternoon. He took an old friend to lunch and they enjoyed visiting together. I had started on a blanket that I told Christine I'd make for her, but they were out of the color at Walmart. (Dad looked at Highland's Walmart on Saturday, and they were out there, too. I hope they'll have it again. I hope that it isn't a color I found in Utah and not here.) John fixes himself dinner early, and Tom was full from lunch, so Christine and I shared a Subway sandwich.
Dad got home in the evening. I was pretty tired. When it is too late for reading a whole chapter of scripture, we just have someone share a few. So Tom did that on Friday. I wish we'd just gone straight to the prayer, because it turned into a drama session. Christine was wise and just went upstairs. By the time we finally had prayers, I just felt pretty much discouraged and done with everything. Well, you live and learn. Next time, we'll have a quick prayer. I was so overtired and glad to get to sleep.
Saturday, yesterday, John had class all day. Christine still had some school to do to be caught up for finals. But we got her room into shape first. Then she vacuumed it. Tom and I spent a good part of the day vacuuming, cleaning bathrooms, and doing laundry. I also mopped the floors. Dad worked on his talks a good part of the day. (He is speaking in the Spanish ward and 1st ward today.) He also ran a couple of errands. I made spaghetti for Tom and Christine, and then Dad and I went out to eat at Souplantation. When we got back, we had scripture time early, and I went to bed fairly early. Today we are fasting for the Thomas family and their little baby girl. I need to get ready for church and read my lesson.
I hope that you have had a good couple of weeks. How are your classes? Have you been spending time with Alex every day? Duh. Do you have a calling? Keep writing in your journal. It's a great thing to do.
I love you so much. Thanks for ready my journal entry. Have a fabulous week, and we'll talk soon.
Love,
Mom
How are things going for you? I have decided to keep writing letters even though kids are home from missions. That way I'll have a journal, and I will know a little about what is going on in your life. It's been a couple of weeks, so I need to do this before it is insurmountable.
Monday, 3 January 2011, was an exciting day. Aunt Kathy came up to your Grandparents' home to visit me since we would be leaving early the next day. My emotions during this day were very up and down. There was so much to feel happy about and so much to feel sad about, in saying good-bye to family. Eliza had barely gotten home, and we needed to drop her off at BYU. And many changes are ahead in life for all of us. We also needed to drop you off at your own little apartment and say good-bye for a few months. And I needed to say good-bye to my family of origin after a wonderful holiday with them. Aunt Kathy's cancer has progressed through so much of her body, making me feel uncertain as to whether I will see her again in this life or not.
In the afternoon, we all went to the museum at BYU. We saw the Carl Bloch exhibit. We also saw an exhibit by another artist. During this time, I thought I was just feeling emotional because of the wonderful artwork and because of the wonderful holiday and because of the impending good-byes. Later, I realized that I was probably coming down with the flu that you and your sisters had the two days before. Carl Bloch's interpretations on seen from Jesus's life and his other paintings were just remarkable. While the other artist was also extremely talented, I enjoyed Bloch's paintings so much more. He captured how we feel.
We had dinner at Village Inn, and I ate a lot! I think we were all hungry and enjoyed our last supper together. Then we had to say good-bye to Eliza and then to you. Earlier in the day I'd been teary about leaving Eliza behind. But back at her apartment, I expressed my excitement for her in starting a new semester and for all of the wonderful things awaiting her. Christine told me that I am bi-polar. I am glad that we stayed a little longer when we dropped you off as well. We love you very much and want you to feel happy, safe, and loved. I felt sad that we had to leave the next morning. I should have spent more time with you.
Tuesday was our drive home. Grandma made a big breakfast even though I'd asked her not to. I think Dad and everyone else enjoyed it though. I was feeling sick, and the smell of the bacon was revolting. (Usually I love bacon.) Actually, I really didn't eat anything until somewhere between Vegas and Barstow. Dad wanted to stop first thing to check his tires, and I told him I was just going to start home. We did not caravan this trip. Christine and I just pretty much blew through. It was a pretty drive none-the-less. John and Dad arrived home about an hour after us.
The house was so cold when we got home. I immediately turned on the heat. After the car was unpacked, I decided to take a hot bath, which was really rather cool. So it didn't last long. I was finally hungry, and did a little shopping and got me a lovely can of chicken and rice soup for dinner. (I like that so much better than chicken noodle.) I went to bed pretty early.
Wednesday. Tommy came home! Christine already missed a couple of days of school and she did a little work on Wednesday, but she was working like crazy last week and this week to make sure everything is done. The next two weeks are finals, and I am sure she will do well. Wednesday morning, I was back to work, getting the living room and Tom's bedroom (dining room) tidied and vacuumed.
It was exciting to go to the airport again. There were people coming down the escalator soon after we arrived, so I had my video camera ready, even though we didn't know if they were from Tom's plane. Well they were, and I should not have answered a phone call. Someone called from Eliza's insurance, and I was talking to her when I saw Tommy. That pretty much ruins a video. So I started a new one and asked if I could call her back. She kept talking, so I basically hung up. I wish I hadn't taken that call. I missed a special moment that I can't bring back. (At least I wasn't fully involved in it.)
Like Eliza, Tom also wanted Mexican food for lunch. We enjoyed a good lunch and then drove home. Tommy spent the day getting settled back in.
Thursday Dad returned to work. Tom continued unpacking and organizing. Christine and I continued her school work. It was a stressful day, just trying to get back into the swing of things.
Thursday evening, Tommy was released from his mission. President Poulsen, Dad, and John gave him a blessing. Like always, the president had only good things to say about our family, and he expressed awe and thanks for Tom's wonderful service.
Friday, more cleaning. Dad and I had our date night. I think we went to Coco's. Needed break. Don't recall Saturday much, if at all. Yes, now I remember. In the morning, Tom and I went to the bookstore and got his books. One of them, we ordered on-line. We went to Costco on Saturday and shopping for Tom's computer. We bought an upgrade from Windows Starter to Windows Home Edition which we were able to use from Tom's, Eliza's, and my computers. Yippee.
Sunday was Tom's homecoming. It was lovely. He really talked for a long time, too. I taped his talk, but I did not video it this time. I still need to upload it so you can hear it. I also taped what President Poulsen had to say at the end of the meeting. Grandpa and Grandma came, and Uncle Kris, Aunt Vicki, and Todd. Also, Sharon Willis and her daughter Brittney came.
The Bishop asked our ward to fast the following Sunday (today) for the Thomas family. JR and Summer just had a baby girl that was born with some physical problems that will require many surgeries.
I enjoyed being back to teach Sunday school. Gospel Principles is a great class. I love it.
We had pulled pork sandwiches for dinner. (Dad cooked the meat.) I made potato salad; Vicki brought a nice green salad, and Grandma brought a pasta salad and lemon bars for Tom. We had fun being together. We had Costco cake and ice cream for dessert.
Monday, 10 January 2011, Christine started back to Seminary. She also got quite a bit of school done before going to the library. I went to the bank to close Eliza's accounts, and then I sat in the parking lot and crocheted. I crocheted a baby blanket for Riley Thomas (from Monday to Wednesday). Now I just need to know when I can give it to them.
John didn't work this Monday, so he and Tom ran errands together. I made chocolate chip cookies and oatmeal raisin for the open house. We also had the Costco cake for that.
Monday evening we had an open house for Tommy. Carri and Sammi came; plus, the Chamberlains, the Goudys, and the Lomenicks. Jason and Leanna Stevens also came with their four kids. It was so great to see them. It was a fun evening. I'm glad we did it.
Tuesday Tommy started classes. He goes from 8 until 4 on Tuesdays and Thursdays. John also worked. So Christine and I had the house to ourselves pretty much the whole day. The first time in ages. We enjoyed a quiet day and accomplished a lot.
Wednesday, Christine helped at the library again. Tom babysat Jordan Muwwakkil. So while Christine was at the library, we went to the park along with Gail Purcell and a little boy she was babysitting. There is a beautiful park on Greenspot, and it was a gorgeous day. The kids enjoyed playing at the playground, playing tag with Tom, and walking through the orange trees. We ate some oranges and took many home. I hope that's okay. They are part of the park, and there is no sign that says not to eat them. Delicious.
Thursday, Tom back to school. Another quiet day at home. So necessary for homeschoolers. Dad left work in the afternoon to fly to Sacramento for leadership training committe meetings. A few of them met for dinner Thursday night, and then they were in meetings all day Friday. The rest of us watched a movie in my room that night. Scott Pilgrim versus the world. It was weird, but produced a lot of laughs.
Friday was an interesting day. Everybody except Dad was home. None of us got a good night's sleep (except John) Thursday night. The wind was howling and crashing into the house most the night. Cans were flying back and forth across the patio, etc. Christine was still getting ready for Seminary when there was a brown out. I wasn't excited about driving her there, and told her that I didn't want to go out in that. When we had a complete blackout just before 6 a.m. that decided it. I just told her she wasn't going. They may have had no electricity at the church as well. Christine, Tom, and I all went back to bed for a while. (Until John got up and was singing in the shower at the top of his lungs. Someone slept well anyhow.)
Christine got busy with school, but it is much harder when people are talking or doing Wii or vying for attention. (John didn't work on Friday.) Tom was gone all afternoon. He took an old friend to lunch and they enjoyed visiting together. I had started on a blanket that I told Christine I'd make for her, but they were out of the color at Walmart. (Dad looked at Highland's Walmart on Saturday, and they were out there, too. I hope they'll have it again. I hope that it isn't a color I found in Utah and not here.) John fixes himself dinner early, and Tom was full from lunch, so Christine and I shared a Subway sandwich.
Dad got home in the evening. I was pretty tired. When it is too late for reading a whole chapter of scripture, we just have someone share a few. So Tom did that on Friday. I wish we'd just gone straight to the prayer, because it turned into a drama session. Christine was wise and just went upstairs. By the time we finally had prayers, I just felt pretty much discouraged and done with everything. Well, you live and learn. Next time, we'll have a quick prayer. I was so overtired and glad to get to sleep.
Saturday, yesterday, John had class all day. Christine still had some school to do to be caught up for finals. But we got her room into shape first. Then she vacuumed it. Tom and I spent a good part of the day vacuuming, cleaning bathrooms, and doing laundry. I also mopped the floors. Dad worked on his talks a good part of the day. (He is speaking in the Spanish ward and 1st ward today.) He also ran a couple of errands. I made spaghetti for Tom and Christine, and then Dad and I went out to eat at Souplantation. When we got back, we had scripture time early, and I went to bed fairly early. Today we are fasting for the Thomas family and their little baby girl. I need to get ready for church and read my lesson.
I hope that you have had a good couple of weeks. Tell me about the Hansel and Gretel play (in English). How is your class going? What fun things have you been doing?
I love you so much. Thanks for ready my journal entry. Have a fabulous week, and we'll talk soon.
Love,
Mom
Dear Eliza,
How are things going for you? I have decided to keep writing letters even though kids are home from missions. That way I'll have a journal, and I will know a little about what is going on in your life. It's been a couple of weeks, so I need to do this before it is insurmountable.
Monday, 3 January 2011, was an exciting day. Aunt Kathy came up to your Grandparents' home to visit me since we would be leaving early the next day. My emotions during this day were very up and down. There was so much to feel happy about and so much to feel sad about, in saying good-bye to family. Our Eliza had barely gotten home, and we needed to drop her off at BYU. And many changes are ahead in life for all of us. We also needed to drop Cathy off at your own little apartment and say good-bye for a few months. And I needed to say good-bye to my family of origin after a wonderful holiday with them. Aunt Kathy's cancer has progressed through so much of her body, making me feel uncertain as to whether I will see her again in this life or not.
In the afternoon, we all went to the museum at BYU. We saw the Carl Bloch exhibit. We also saw an exhibit by another artist. During this time, I thought I was just feeling emotional because of the wonderful artwork and because of the wonderful holiday and because of the impending good-byes. Later, I realized that I was probably coming down with the flu that you and your sisters had the two days before. Carl Bloch's interpretations on seen from Jesus's life and his other paintings were just remarkable. While the other artist was also extremely talented, I enjoyed Bloch's paintings so much more. He captured how we feel.
We had dinner at Village Inn, and I ate a lot! I think we were all hungry and enjoyed our last supper together. Then we had to say good-bye to Eliza and then to Cathy. Earlier in the day I'd been teary about leaving Eliza behind. But back at her apartment, I expressed my excitement for her in starting a new semester and for all of the wonderful things awaiting her. Christine told me that I am bi-polar. I am glad that we stayed a little longer when we dropped Cathy off as well. We love her very much and want all of you to feel happy, safe, and loved. I felt sad that we had to leave the next morning. I should have spent more time with my girls.
Tuesday was our drive home. Grandma made a big breakfast even though I'd asked her not to. I think Dad and everyone else enjoyed it though. I was feeling sick, and the smell of the bacon was revolting. (Usually, I love bacon.) Actually, I really didn't eat anything until somewhere between Vegas and Barstow. Dad wanted to stop first thing to check his tires, and I told him I was just going to start home. We did not caravan this trip. Christine and I just pretty much blew through. It was a pretty drive none-the-less. John and Dad arrived home about an hour after us.
The house was so cold when we got home. I immediately turned on the heat. After the car was unpacked, I decided to take a hot bath, which was really rather cool. So it didn't last long. I was finally hungry, and did a little shopping and got me a lovely can of chicken and rice soup for dinner. (I like that so much better than chicken noodle.) I went to bed pretty early.
Wednesday. Tommy came home! Christine already missed a couple of days of school and she did a little work on Wednesday, but she was working like crazy last week and this week to make sure everything is done. The next two weeks are finals, and I am sure she will do well. Wednesday morning, I was back to work, getting the living room and Tom's bedroom (dining room) tidied and vacuumed.
It was exciting to go to the airport again. There were people coming down the escalator soon after we arrived, so I had my video camera ready, even though we didn't know if they were from Tom's plane. Well they were, and I should not have answered a phone call. Someone called from missionary insurance, and I was talking to her when I saw Tommy. That pretty much ruins a video. So I started a new one and asked if I could call her back. She kept talking, so I basically hung up. I wish I hadn't taken that call. I missed a special moment that I can't bring back. (At least I wasn't fully involved in it.)
Like you, Tom also wanted Mexican food for lunch. We enjoyed a good lunch and then drove home. Tommy spent the day getting settled back in.
Thursday Dad returned to work. Tom continued unpacking and organizing. Christine and I continued her school work. It was a stressful day, just trying to get back into the swing of things.
Thursday evening, Tommy was released from his mission. President Poulsen, Dad, and John gave him a blessing. Like always, the president had only good things to say about our family, and he expressed awe and thanks for Tom's wonderful service.
Friday, more cleaning. Dad and I had our date night. I think we went to Coco's. Needed break. Don't recall Saturday much, if at all. Yes, now I remember. In the morning, Tom and I went to the bookstore and got his books. One of them, we ordered on-line. We went to Costco on Saturday and shopping for Tom's computer. We bought an upgrade from Windows Starter to Windows Home Edition which we were able to use from Tom's, Eliza's, and my computers. Yippee.
Sunday was Tom's homecoming. It was lovely. He really talked for a long time, too. I taped his talk, but I did not video it this time. I still need to upload it so you can hear it. I also taped what President Poulsen had to say at the end of the meeting. Grandpa and Grandma came, and Uncle Kris, Aunt Vicki, and Todd. Also, Sharon Willis and her daughter Brittney came.
The Bishop asked our ward to fast the following Sunday (today) for the Thomas family. JR and Summer just had a baby girl that was born with some physical problems that will require many surgeries.
I enjoyed being back to teach Sunday school. Gospel Principles is a great class. I love it.
We had pulled pork sandwiches for dinner. (Dad cooked the meat.) I made potato salad; Vicki brought a nice green salad, and Grandma brought a pasta salad and lemon bars for Tom. We had fun being together. We had Costco cake and ice cream for dessert.
Monday, 10 January 2011, Christine started back to Seminary. She also got quite a bit of school done before going to the library. I went to the bank to close Eliza's accounts, and then I sat in the parking lot and crocheted. I crocheted a baby blanket for Riley Thomas (from Monday to Wednesday). Now I just need to know when I can give it to them.
John didn't work this Monday, so he and Tom ran errands together. I made chocolate chip cookies and oatmeal raisin for the open house. We also had the Costco cake for that.
Monday evening we had an open house for Tommy. Carri and Sammi came; plus, the Chamberlains, the Goudys, and the Lomenicks. Jason and Leanna Stevens also came with their four kids. It was so great to see them. It was a fun evening. I'm glad we did it.
Tuesday Tommy started classes. He goes from 8 until 4 on Tuesdays and Thursdays. John also worked. So Christine and I had the house to ourselves pretty much the whole day. The first time in ages. We enjoyed a quiet day and accomplished a lot.
Wednesday, Christine helped at the library again. Tom babysat Jordan Muwwakkil. So while Christine was at the library, we went to the park along with Gail Purcell and a little boy she was babysitting. There is a beautiful park on Greenspot, and it was a gorgeous day. The kids enjoyed playing at the playground, playing tag with Tom, and walking through the orange trees. We ate some oranges and took many home. I hope that's okay. They are part of the park, and there is no sign that says not to eat them. Delicious.
Thursday, Tom back to school. Another quiet day at home. So necessary for homeschoolers. Dad left work in the afternoon to fly to Sacramento for leadership training committe meetings. A few of them met for dinner Thursday night, and then they were in meetings all day Friday. The rest of us watched a movie in my room that night. Scott Pilgrim versus the world. It was weird, but produced a lot of laughs.
Friday was an interesting day. Everybody except Dad was home. None of us got a good night's sleep (except John) Thursday night. The wind was howling and crashing into the house most the night. Cans were flying back and forth across the patio, etc. Christine was still getting ready for Seminary when there was a brown out. I wasn't excited about driving her there, and told her that I didn't want to go out in that. When we had a complete blackout just before 6 a.m. that decided it. I just told her she wasn't going. They may have had no electricity at the church as well. Christine, Tom, and I all went back to bed for a while. (Until John got up and was singing in the shower at the top of his lungs. Someone slept well anyhow.)
Christine got busy with school, but it is much harder when people are talking or doing Wii or vying for attention. (John didn't work on Friday.) Tom was gone all afternoon. He took an old friend to lunch and they enjoyed visiting together. I had started on a blanket that I told Christine I'd make for her, but they were out of the color at Walmart. (Dad looked at Highland's Walmart on Saturday, and they were out there, too. I hope they'll have it again. I hope that it isn't a color I found in Utah and not here.) John fixes himself dinner early, and Tom was full from lunch, so Christine and I shared a Subway sandwich.
Dad got home in the evening. I was pretty tired. When it is too late for reading a whole chapter of scripture, we just have someone share a few. So Tom did that on Friday. I wish we'd just gone straight to the prayer, because it turned into a drama session. Christine was wise and just went upstairs. By the time we finally had prayers, I just felt pretty much discouraged and done with everything. Well, you live and learn. Next time, we'll have a quick prayer. I was so overtired and glad to get to sleep.
Saturday, yesterday, John had class all day. Christine still had some school to do to be caught up for finals. But we got her room into shape first. Then she vacuumed it. Tom and I spent a good part of the day vacuuming, cleaning bathrooms, and doing laundry. I also mopped the floors. Dad worked on his talks a good part of the day. (He is speaking in the Spanish ward and 1st ward today.) He also ran a couple of errands. I made spaghetti for Tom and Christine, and then Dad and I went out to eat at Souplantation. When we got back, we had scripture time early, and I went to bed fairly early. Today we are fasting for the Thomas family and their little baby girl. I need to get ready for church and read my lesson.
I hope that you have had a good couple of weeks. How are your classes? Have you been spending time with Alex every day? Duh. Do you have a calling? Keep writing in your journal. It's a great thing to do.
I love you so much. Thanks for ready my journal entry. Have a fabulous week, and we'll talk soon.
Love,
Mom
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